Chapter: Really?

Tell me if I'm crazy, but aren't people supposed to feel something (even if it's just a little) when they know what they're doing is wrong? Or do they mute their conscience? Like you can't mess up soo many times and say you're still learning when the mistakes are all so similar. I don't get it. How can you do something knowing it's wrong? KNOWING it's off and not right and then they say it's because they're a kid. Kids learn eventually.
Wouldn't you eventually learn disloyalty isn't right? You don't even need to learn it, you feel it. If only people knew what it felt like to experience disloyalty, maybe then they'd understand what they're doing. No judgment really, in all honesty I'm trying to understand how it's wrong for a person to feel upset or bothered when they are deceived. I'm only human you know, as is everyone else, but damn. People make mistakes, but how much can one tolerate?

And just a side question: since when was it morally ok to be disloyal?